Hi Miss Painter. I'm glad that you have found a meeting group that helps you. It's good to be seeing new people, particularly those with an understanding of what you have experienced.

That does seem rather hard to believe that you H didn't see OW for all that time and then she suddenly just moves in. Where does this fall in the believe nothing they say spectrum?

I'm not sure he is worthy of your sympathy, but you're a good person for still being able to be empathetic toward him after everything that has happened.

I hope that you are able to sleep well tonight, and that tomorrow continues to bring you peace and progress.

(((Painter)))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16