Ok, here's my super success story. Finally got all the moving done. (moved back in with my mom) During one of the days I spent working at packing and cleaning the other house, H of his own volition asked me out to lunch and took me. (Huge love tank fill) Woke up one morning to H fondling me, H asked if I were up to "helping out" with his not so little problem, (HUGE step for him, saying something) I spent 30 seconds considering and SPARKED. I actually freaking wanted to and felt PASSION, connection, AND DESIRE for my H. Rocked his world and mine too.