Another work from home day. Getting things done and feel less distracted and scatterbrained than before.

Going to an ACA meeting soon (Adult Children of Alcholics). Last week was interesting so I'm looking forward to it.

Talked to WH today. I had said something about his 'honeymoon' with OW in an e-mail, and he said he wanted to let me know it was no such thing. He is very conflicted, very concerned about some things related to OW, and feels numb. He's not happy, he just feels numb.

I replied that it was a relief to hear - because that's what I would expect someone in his situation to feel, it sounded more normal than anything else from him in a while. That this is why it's not considered a very wise thing to do, move in a new woman 3 weeks after your wife of 15 years moves out.

He claims that he did not see her from November 2014 until she moved in. It sounds crazy. I hope he can get rid of her if he wants.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17