New to Site - Just found about another

[Zues126]

Yeah, it's gross. It's one of those things that isn't ok, but that's ok. If you know what I mean. Like it's horrible beyond comprehension...but then you just shrug and keep moving and be appreciative for what you have.

The spec of hope isn't hope, that's the spec of weakness that wants an easy way out of the pain. Just realize it isn't coming from a place of love, commitment, or anything like that. It's just weakness. No need to have hope, keep moving and what will be will be.

As for being tired of limbo...life is limbo. Anytime we think anything differently it's because we are counting on a future that's not guaranteed. Like you weren't in limbo prior to BD, because you knew you would be married for the rest of your life. Oh, wait...

Bottom line, no better time to relax and live for the moment. That doesn't mean snorting coke and listening to the bee gees (although it may), but just being the best man every day you can be as you move forward.

Thanks for the updates.