I don't know if it's advisable or not. When my h first left he initiated with me a few times and I accepted but eventually he realized he couldn't keep doing that without knowing what the heck he wanted so stoped. He also had ow and claimed that r to be non physical (still not sure if I believe that but wtf).
Point is you have to decide if you are ok with it and what you expect to gain from it.
It could bring him back toward you and thus bye bye ow. He could continue to ml with you and never give her up.
Michelle has a section in her book about it. She says go ahead as it may bring you closer. But she also warns that you must consider your feelings about it too. If you feel used, angry etc afterward well then that's no good right? but I say all the power to you...you're not doing anything wrong by getting busy with your h.
