Do you think you'll get an honest answer about drug use from your h? I don't think so. I could be very wrong about this, but I think your h stays up late and then over sleeps. Crisis people in many cases can't sleep because they can't shut their minds off.
My lawyer thought the same thing was going on w/my h, but he wasn't using drugs at all...the man was just burning the candle at both ends.
If you are going to make the custody/visitation legal, I would have it stipulated that your son is required to be at school on time and if that is a problem, then maybe your son needs to be spend time with his father on Friday and Saturday nights and on Sunday nights if Monday is a holiday. Getting your child to school late because he's overslept doesn't cut it w/me. Yes, I can undersand if the electric goes off, but they have cell phones and alarm clocks that they can set to wake them up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
