Good for you. Keep calm. Protect yourself. Maybe demand the same things in return. Negotiate from a strong position. This is all business now. Keep emotions out of it. That's why you have a L. She will use every dirty trick on earth to get the maximum out of you. Count on it. Document every little encounter and interaction between you and her, your kids and her, and you and your kids.

I was in the jury pool on a divorce case where the father went to pick up the kids on the scheduled date. The W halls him to court for assault, etc. when no such thing occurred. He was acquitted but the dirty tricks people and lawyers will do are astonishing just to wear you down.


Me:49 W:45
M:19 T:22
EA confirmed and ended 8/2014
S:19,17 D:9,5