Thanks guys.

Well, in response to strength etc., I don't feel strong at all, and am having difficulty at the moment. Another firkin nightmare last night and I was so exhausted, I slept in, missed my gym, and was in a foul mood all day. So, to say that you guys see strength means a lot smile

When she joined, it was the weekend of my S's birthday, and in the week before she called a few times/texted etc. and I replied in a courteous, confident manner; pleasant and welcoming, so maybe it's just lonlliness. Again, I would be second guessing, but at this moment in time, if she was to start dating, I think that is a moment that would have to be a 'you've played me too much - no more'. Maybe that's what she's looking for - again, pure guesswork. Maybe I should start calling myself Sherlock and get myself a magnifying glass and look for more clues!

So she hasn't sent any messages or replied to any of the messages sent to her, or reacted to the 'winks', or posted any photographs, and it looks like she hasn't paid the full fee. That doesn't mean she isn't looking elsewhere. If I was a betting man, I would say her sister put her up to it.

The more I see, the more parallels I can see with sandi2. This is all a bit exhausting at the moment.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015