I'm posting my own success. I was a LD spouse till it drove my H away (he is HD), but now I'm HD. I stopped taking contraceptive, I dressed better and wore sexy undies and boy, my libido went from virtually nonexistent to wanting it almost everyday.

Only problem is still separated from H but we've ML for few times since December, ranging from all day-all nite, marathon sex to quickies when he came to see kids. He is seeing OW whom he cant let go of (he said no sex involved). Is it advisable for me to continue doing this, ie ML to H. Will this bring him back to me? Dunno. But I sure do enjoy those LM sessions with him, the kinkiest and sexiest we ever experienced since er got married 8 years ago.

I've been wanting it for a few days, but heck H not around coz he is busy not hurting OW's feelings! Yuk!

Sometimes the very thing you're looking for is the one thing you can't see..