...the start of something: papers?

[cbtdad]

Man I'm sorry to hear this
I remember being served the first time around
Reading it and wondering how in the hell did two people love each other get to this point.
It certainly is tough what you are going no through
I would still clear of any talk with W at the moment
If she is there, just say, "I respect your decision. I don't think divorce is the solution. I will can continue to work in myself and I don't want to discuss this right now."
If she pushes just ask her to respect your wishes.
If she continues to push then do your very best to just walk away
It's going to be hard
But you know your emotions are at a volcanic level and nothing good will come from having a talk with her right now