I have been reading the post from zues123 and yes I agree that getting my own place is my next move. I am viewing a place tomorrow and hope I get it because rentals are at a premium in my area. I know I have been waiting around, hoping my WW will change her mind...but she hasn't. I don't think she would rule anything out in the future but for now, I am getting nowhere. I too want to have the kids with me for weekends and enjoy time with them without being told it's time to leave. Today my WW asked if I could go round to the house to fix a blocked sink. I went there because I knew that I would get to take the girls to the park. My WW didn't even offer me a glass of water after doing the repairs. She has this mentality that she needs to keep me at a distance and keep reminding me that we are divorcing! Does she get a kick out of it? I almost feel sorry for her as she is just spiting her own face by her actions. It almost seems like she is faking it to show no emotion...The girls on the other hand have told her that they have no favorites and love us both the same, which must have hit my WW quite hard.
Anyway, like zues123 said, his WW felt left out of his time alone with the kids..I think my WW will too. I just need to figure out how to detach from her completely. I know that my own loneliness is a big factor here but are there any ideas out there to start me off?
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
