Sure, she denies this is so, but I can tell. Something's really going to hit home with her and pull her out of the fog, I just don't know when.
A fog is usually so temporary......and it's pretty good, I guess, at describing part of the WW. Personally, I think it runs deeper, b/c it begins in the mental attitude. The resentment and disrespect probably stay the longest, and are the hardest for her to delete, IMHO. It raises its ugly head the quickest after the couple tries to piece the M back together.
You can't really give a time slot to how long it will last. My resentment and disrespect for my H went for years before I rebelled. My rebellion actually didn't last very long, compared to many. I don't think Coconut's W has rebelled as long as most of the stories we read. So, you can't put a time clock on them.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
