Understand where you're coming from, but you're out of limbo land (I know you don't want it, but at least you kind of have an end - don't take that the wrong way!).
Roist
Bummer of a day on Saturday. best to forget and move on.
All
Well, I've had to snoop. I know, before the 2x4's come hurtling my way, but my S brought over his tablet computer today and my W joined Match.com two and a bit weeks ago. One of the tabs was left open (again) so I had a poke around to see what she's up to. So, she's joined but not uploaded any photographs, sent any messages or replied to any of the emails sent to her.
My immediate reaction was to tell her I wanted a D (I'm not going to be able to handle infidelity, right now) when she came over to pick them up, but after a couple of minutes I realised that this was probably another 'rope pulling' exercise to see if I react.
Now, it could be that I'm as thick as a doorstop, or that I really am seeing reality going on, but if you add up the number of 'web pages left open' and other things to try and pull my chain, I really do think she's trying to get that reaction that sandi2 goes on about, where they know if they can carry on playing you, or, realise it's time to stop and think.
Don't know which?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015