My Wife Walked Out

[Coconut]

Is it wrong that her crying made you feel better? Nope, you know why, because your feelings are your feelings and they are neither right or wrong, they just are.

BUT, I will say that I really hurt my wife when I outted the A on her fire station chat, and even though she has caused me so much pain, I felt HORRIBLE!!! Even after all the pain I have gone through, I love that woman, and I don't like to see her hurt. With that said, I don't mind seeing her tear up because she's sad about our situation, that feels good to me, maybe it's just because she's hurting, but I think it's more because she's hurting about the loss of what we had.

RSG, I see a lot of hope in your situation, you are strong and are doing the right things. Even if it doesn't work out with your WW, I know you'll be ok, but I think you have a lot of hope in getting to chose to be with her or move on. That's the most we can wish for, to get to be part of the decision on if there is a future R with us and our S, and not just have them make the decision before we even knew the question was asked.