For the photos I read on here that you could just send the photos out to get digitally copied then just give W the digital copies.
I have not done that yet but I think its a good idea. We had a room divider with 8x10 all over it in each panel from our wedding. It has been up until the last day at the house. W would walk by it everyday. She never said anything about it. She did not want it.
For the young kids yes they will act out. I had complaints from the school. It changed nothing.
Keep up the good work, keep going to the therapist if you need to.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016