Hey rich4j,

Thanks for the support.

I am doing stuff for myself. But when alone I find I am not easily motivated. I cam from a big family, always people around. I find it hard to stay focoused when alone. I will have to work on this.


Ok so today W texted me about car wash soap and a wash brush, if I had extra before she buys it.

I did not reply

Then an email about soccer tonight and to bring a lawn chair for myself and that she will meet me there. We live two minutes away. I was wondering how that was going to go as we used to just drive together. I guess that stops now. I cant suggest it as that is pursuing. Right?

I did not reply to the email, but now I replied to the text. Don't buy any I will look to see what I have.

Her birthday is next week and I think this will be a good gift to give her from the kids.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016