Oh yeah, this is definitely about lawyer tactics. I just wish they hadn't kicked the beehive down the hall at me. I truly am a nice guy, and don't want to put things out there, that would not favor my wife. Unfortunately, they may force my hand, and if they do, they're not going to like somethings I may divulge.

Right now they are just trying to get a rise out of me. especially serving me on our wedding anniversary. I don't believe that's coincidental. They are wanting me to say or send something nasty to my wife, for ammunition on record.

I will in know way use my kids in this game they've started, but from her on out this will be adversarial. which I was hoping to avoid.


Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015