Separating to pieces (hopefully)

[rich4j]

JB

Going thru the same thing right now with a daughter near the same age.

Good advice here. It's hard to dis-engage with your WAW in the financial piece but you really have to look at it as a business transaction. My STBX has been stone cold mean and ruthless and has put her interests before our daughter which I won't do. Only give in where you know it truly will help your children.

My L has guided me through this hell but I have also read up quite a bit on ... Sad that there is such a site but there are some forums there too for advice if needed.