Huge changes in our marriage over the last 6 years. We've gone from a negative, harsh, blaming marriage with very fierce fights to a positive, supportive one. We're doing a lot better at living by the values we have always espoused with our mouths. My wife has found rewarding work outside the home helping abused children in the court system.
Our children have turned out great.
My wife has become very open to quality time, and has recently decided to be willing to reopen the sex question.
And I've found a community here where I can talk openly about things that I simply can't share with anyone else. That in itself is a huge success.