Glad you pointed this out. My 2 cents on this one, as its not always touched on here, the difference between the sexes. As a man ... clinging and begging is desperately unattractive and will make the WAW run faster towards her hunky OM who she feels is her everything and a bag of chips. Helping her move out places you in a Beta role (Friendzoned) as she pines for her new Alpha, .... sure being viewed as a friend is better than the Ahole H ... however its not going to win her back in the role of spouse, if you want her as a friend by all means be my guest. This is where you detach, 180, PMA and GAL and by your actions ... not words ... you prove you are the prize, the catch while the OM and A loses its shine. Like you said ... this is where you the LBS "is confident that they can have a happy life without the WS."
CaliGuy,
I'm in agreement with you and I really like that you don't pull any punches.
