What Should I be doing (5)

[Coconut]

Anyway, she made the comment the other day that she expects a lot of ups and downs, and she is committed to working through those as long as we work through it with just us, and not "post" our problems for other peoples viewing (referring to fire station chat and facebook).

I forgot to finish my thought on this. So when she said this, it clicked in my head that it doesn't need to be a quick fix, that she is in it for the long haul, and I can actually take the time needed to make the fixes that are needed to make it a long lasting healthy relationship..

From day 1 of my sitch you can see that I am a very inpatient person, but I feel like I'm in a good spot right now, one that if remained stagnant for awhile I would be ok with where we are, and can take the time I need without worrying about what she is doing, and of course it helps that I believe she isn't going anywhere.