I made a typo in my original post and said that I got a cuddle from my H so it looks as though I've "come out" and I guess if I lived in California I could have an H but actually it's rather confusing for me because my W is also my H and I am constantly having to re-read my posts to make sure I've used her status (W) instead of her initial (H). So if you read a post from me whare I'm refering to my H it is actually my W and I have not gone over to the other side. I hope that makes as much sense to you as it does to me. SD
