Here's my concern. You seem to be playing this game of collecting allies to try to say that you are right and your W is wrong. I am reading this like you want us to validate that you are "correct" or "justified" in your actions and that your wife is crazy. What you need to try to remember is that your wife has feelings and that they are not "wrong". If she feels cold, you cant say "no you dont"....that just doesnt make sense.
So if she says "I felt threatened", you cant possibly disagree. Just because you werent trying to be threatening doesnt mean she didnt feel threatened. I can see how she might feel that way; there was a larger, desperate, very loud, ranting person blocking the only exit to the room she was in.
For now, I will leave you with this: Her perception is her reality. There is no "right" or "wrong" with regards to feelings.
I guess all I can say to this is - I'm just trying to write my story right now. I understand what you are saying - and you have a very valid point. I guess I feel very hurt and scared myself right now, and that I don't have a voice to defend myself - other than writing my story on an internet forum. Certainly it seems like everything else going on, and the court system - is validating 'her perspective', I'm just trying to get my own perspective down somewhere, if only just to get it out of my system, because this is all I can do, and I know myself, and I feel unfairly treated in this situation.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
