Originally Posted By: doodler
During your dark days of marital woes, did you use DB techniques?

I found this place far too late to have any impact on my marriage. I broke every one of Sandi's rules daily for a couple of months after BD.

Originally Posted By: doodler
Was there anything that worked best for you?

In saving my marriage? Absolutely not.

But the things Im outlining in this thread are things Ive learned that have helped me in every day life, in my new relationships, and have helped me to become a "better" person.