I saw the W this morning but she didn't see me, my heart broke all over again. I would give anything to talk to her and hold her again.
We're here to help, we all needed help in the past, and many have been in your shoes before, so don't panic.
When my WW and I first started our structured separation, I would purposely leave work early in order to make it home before she had to leave, just to see her for a few minutes in passing. I would take routes that were out of my way in hopes of passing her on the road, just to get a glimpse. I would see her car parked at a restaurant and have my brother meet me there "coincidentally". There are many other "things" I did, some much more shameful than others. But people do crazy things when the person they love most is slipping away. But let me just say... None of these actions EVER had a lasting positive impact, and ALMOST ALWAYS backfired!
Originally Posted By: SH_
KyleR, have you obtained DR yet?
Which path will you choose?
What is you plan today to experience a moment of joy and peace that is about you?
Please look at SH's post here, you need to get a copy of the DR book, and you need to start reading all the material you can about LBS, WAW, WW, etc. You're going to make the same mistakes that many of the rest of us have done. The quicker you obtain the knowledge needed to better equip yourself, the quicker you can put that knowledge into a plan and take action that can make a difference.
