My post above was supposed to say WW vs. WAS vs. MLC.
I agree about not jointing her pity party, of course I am curious about what her issue is.... Maybe because I STILL think I need to resolve it? Yep, I let her in my head far too much.
I guess I am going to have to admit to "trying to win her back" being my goal.
Ironic you mention the "easy button", I have one on my desk a former coworker left me. It seems to not be working though.
I really do hate that this is happening. Building 2 separate lives seems like such a waste, when there is a chance (though very slim) that we could end up putting it all back together again and have wasted time and money on duplicate stuff. Seems every day that passes, the more separate our lives become, the older the kids get, the less reason there is to try to put it back together again. I resent her for taking that time away from us... We could be out doing fun things as a complete family, right now!
