Wow do I wish this "game" was over. In one hand I don't even care if I win or lose anymore, I just don't want to deal with her any longer. Too bad that's not an option. On the other hand I want to show her I am happy, strong, confident, someone only a fool would leave.
Zephyr brought up a good question...what is your goal with this? To move on?
I am with you OFP in the above quote & have the same exact feelings. I sense there is alot of resentment, anger and bitterness which are all the feelings I have for my STBX. I am tired of the legal back and forth, spending like a drunken sailor and dealings and want a normal life back. I want her to feel pain and suffering as I have which she would say she has but it is different.
From my readings and talking to some other folks divorced, it seems that the initial couple years the feelings you are having are normal. I prefer my STBX would pick up and leave forever right now. But I know that would hurt my daughter and is not reasonable. It is good you have a family support system around you so keep spending time with the kids and focusing on being strong. Some snap out of it right away and some it take years to wish they worked things out.....
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
