My parents went out to meet xW to get something she was supposed to bring for me, and she forgot it. And she was pi$$y, I could tell from inside the restaurant the way her arms were flailing around. Wow, what a pity party for herself.
as long as you don't attend the pity part thst that is all her business. her drama is hers and you just leave her to it
I am curious what set her off... The things I listed above? Or did she see on FB that I had the kids out in the boat? And in the camper? And my daughter on a dirt bike the weekend before? Or because she got the letter from my atty about her excessive spending? The truth of something apparently hurts.
you have no idea, she could have stubbed her toe on the way in or swallowed a bug or she was jealous of you actually enjoying your kids. whatever her reasons...they are her truth and she is certainly entitled to it. as long as she is not harming you, then what difference does it make. stop letting her in your head, you have better things to do than worry about her nonsense. I understand how frustrating it can be to not know why...but consider that one of your challenges, to try ro move forward without a why.
I am still stuck on the WAS vs. WAW vs.MLC... Apparently the approach to each is different according to Sandi. Her filing an OFP forced me to file D to get my life back. She was cake eating for too long, going on with life with all my toys and all my money. When I filed she got angry, very angry. Selfish all along. There are things I can do and say through my parents. Take the approach of tough love or kind hearted?
What is your goal here. are you trying to detach, are you trying to separate your emotional health from her roller coaster crazy OR are you trying to win her back or get her to admit she is wrong or something else entirely?
self-improvement and getting a life, focusing efforts on your kids, your health and your mindset should be your focus right now no matter what her side of the fence looks like.
this is not easy and you were thrust into this so when I saw I feel your pain, i really do. I wish there was an easy bitton, but there is not.
I will continue to send positive thoughts your way!
