Good validatoon in the R talk. W taking steps to cut off OM. W aware that door is kept ajar. W starting to show the same religious convictions as you.
But please remember Sandi's rule about believing none of what they say and half of what they do.
Take note of the positives then file them away. Be cautiously optimistic.
You are confused because W is confused. 2 confused persons in a R is not good. 1 confused person in a R trying to mindread another confused person is an exercise in futility. Don't go there.
Some questions: Who initiated the R talk? Are you taking steps to show W that while you are keeping the door ajar, you are also becoming a better man and moving ahead with your life? Did you keep the first few buttons of your shirt unbuttoned?
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.