[BrightFuture]

Thanks, Irish. I had quite a few milestones since BD, that’s for sure. I think I’m moving on quite nicely, but this H’s “niceness” threw me off a bit recently.

I had a great time at the vacation home. My friends threw me an amazing party. Our other friends hosted it at their house, and my GF (mutual friend) cooked a bunch of Mexican dishes. I’m so grateful to have friends like this!

There was some other things that transpired during my stay at the vacation home… I will post about it later…

I drove back home from the vacation home on Monday, then flew to Vegas on Tuesday to meet with my other GF. We spent a few days doing some fun stuff, including a lunch and a dinner on my actual B-day. We also took a Hoover Dam tour on our last day there. I was completely in a party mood. But… guess what… I was getting some texts from H. He texted me Happy Birthday on Wednesday (there was no phone call this time, but I think he knew that I was in Vegas), and immediately proceeded to complain about the condo mortgage and asking me some questions. REALLY!!! On my 50th B-day he needed to discuss the condo business!!!

I thanked him for the B-day wishes and also for the card that I received from him. It was actually pretty nice, wishing me all the good things for my “39”th B-day. I thanked him for that, and he replied that “what girl wants to hear she is fifty”… I thought it was pretty nice of him. I made a couple of jokes in my replies to him, but I completely ignored his complaints about the condo. Then, next day he texted me again (why could not he live me alone to enjoy my time in Vegas, LOL…). H said that he learnt that I sold my old car to my mutual friends in Mexico and was offering to drive it down there on June 15th. He also said that my male mutual friend told him that I would like to come down there on July 4th weekend, and he will not be there, and I’m welcome to use the condo… The bottom line is that I was totally going to enjoy my time in Vegas and didn’t even think about H… But… He sure reminded me of himself, LOL. And… once again he offered me to stay at the condo without me asking him. This is quite significant in lieu of some stuff that I will post later (hint – I’m thinking to buy another condo over there… for me…)

In all of these text exchanges he’s been extremely nice and polite. However, he texted me today that our neighbor in Mexico (condo next door) is going to be in my city next week and she can pick up the car from me, then pick him up from the airport and they can drive to the vacation home. I was kind of taken aback at first… With all his niceness and increased contact… I thought that he would want to come over and see me… But… No… It doesn’t look like he wants to do it… I was confused for a few minutes… And then I recovered… It actually makes it easier for me… And then I thought that he might be trying to avoid picking up some stuff from here, like his storage chests, which I’m so eager to get rid off any time now… Maybe I’m just delusional… I had this gut feeling that H is looking for the ways to reconnect… But, with this last development, I’m just not so sure anymore…

So, who knows what is on H’s mind… I just need to keep my head straight and keep going on with my life. I have all the intention to do that!

My sister and her H thrown a huge B-day party for me last Saturday! They decorated the house with these 50th stuff, LOL. They cooked our traditional food… My GF was there too (the one I was in Vegas with), my BIL (H’s brother came too), my son and his GF, my nephews, another friend… We had a lot of fun! I cannot be more grateful for my family and friends being there for me! I felt a lot of love! I’m very fortunate to have my family and my friends!

I’m back to work this week. My GF is still here until Friday.

Sorry, my friends, for not posting to all your threads… I’ve been reading and keeping up the best I can. I promise I will post as soon as I get some breathing time…