A new crossroad reached

[mleigh4]

You guys crack me up. The drone was weird and yes, a bit creepy. I can see why people feel violated with those things!

I called H out on it tonight when I dropped off S. I asked, so that wasn't you yesterday?? He just stared at me. I said, the drone? He said no, wasn't me. He said, you think I would do that then not respond to you? (Weird comment) I said, I texted you and you never answered? He said he didn't get a text, pulled out his phone, said shoot it's dead.

Whatever. I may never know.

I then told H I have calendars printed up for us to go over together and plan out the holidays. He says, ok, did you bring mine? I said, no, we need to sit down and go over it together.....he looked like he had no idea what I was talking about....

Job, I hear you laughing....

So I told him, if it's ok with him, instead of doing dinner, to go take a walk or hike instead to talk some stuff out. (Now I feel all the men cringing! I know...) So he said, sure, whatever, with complete disinterest.

So, I am not going to let this go. Holidays have to be worked out between us. I hope, during that time, to get in his head just a wee bit.

Bttrfly and Sotto, I agree that feelings are still there, I dont feel our story is quite over...

Cali and Job, I agree 100%, H is not ready for MC. I dont think either of us are, we are not there right now.