Saw xW again tonight, she came into the restaurant I was at. I am guessing she didn't know I would be there, or that my extended family would be, or she wouldn't have come in. She had her brother's two D's along, they came running up and hugged me, I chatted with them for a minute. I am guessing the combination of all these things bothered her.
My parents went out to meet xW to get something she was supposed to bring for me, and she forgot it. And she was pi$$y, I could tell from inside the restaurant the way her arms were flailing around. Wow, what a pity party for herself.
I am curious what set her off... The things I listed above? Or did she see on FB that I had the kids out in the boat? And in the camper? And my daughter on a dirt bike the weekend before? Or because she got the letter from my atty about her excessive spending? The truth of something apparently hurts.
I am still stuck on the WAS vs. WAW vs.MLC... Apparently the approach to each is different according to Sandi. Her filing an OFP forced me to file D to get my life back. She was cake eating for too long, going on with life with all my toys and all my money. When I filed she got angry, very angry. Selfish all along. There are things I can do and say through my parents. Take the approach of tough love or kind hearted?
