H was taking nap so I took walk and then hung outside to check out stars. When up H looked around for me and then guess called. When he came outside he said what are you doing and had upset tone that I did not answer. Cannot win Ugh.
Jzm,
Take my words for what you'd like... but this is a win in my eyes. Look at what Cnut said to you before... When you tell him every little detail of your life, he shows carelessness, disinterested, and unwilling to engage.
You disappear for 20 minutes and he doesn't know where you are? He's running around looking, calling, and then takes an angry/upset tone towards you... (remember, anger/upset comes from emotion/hurt). You don't get angry or upset with someone you don't give two cents about.
I'd suggest more of what Cnut said... do more, but say less. If he asks you, be mysterious. It sounds like he's a controller, and it seems, while he shows he doesn't care about you, or your actions... as soon as you do stuff without him knowing, he's all up in your biz...
