Originally Posted By: betterm
I'm reading some of this past thread... wow. The hard work isn't over yet though, probably hasn't even begun... but like many have said on here, most of us would kill to have our WW even show interest in considering to work on the M. you've done well so far, Cnut! keep it up and reap your rewards!

If you had to put an asterisk to your most influential 180, what would it be?


Ok, that's a tough question, hard to pick one, but I'll give you the ones I believe had the most impact in order:

1. * Rekindle R with son... W stated a few times first drawn to me because I was great with her son when first dating, getting close to him again included getting of the couch (her biggest complaint), I started playing basketball with him, working out with him, and just focusing on him.. He now has his first girlfriend ever (2 weeks running) and it's been a blast talking him through things.

2. Making the bed daily... It's the only 180 she has asked me about. She asked why I was doing it about a week after I found out about EA, I told her I didn't like who I had become and the little things made me feel good.

3. Wearing body spray and cologne at all times... She didn't mention it, but I was running low on the body spray and she bought me a new one without me asking.

4. GAL... I go out when she's at fire academy, and she's frequently inquiring about where I went, if I met any interesting people, and that she's glad I'm enjoying it and even the little outings keep me off the couch.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized