I'm hoping this is all part of some crisis she's having and won't actually follow through with it. I don't want to challenge her on it yet because it would probably get her back up but it's worth arming myself with enough information in the mean time.
My thoughts are as everyone is sharing. Protect yourself. This is where you must remove the emotions and focus on the facts. Do not make decisions based on not wanting to upset her, or fear that she won't reconcile. Trust me, I have a couple of friends that made those mistakes and are paying for it 15 years later. Do what is right for you and your children. And do not wait. Many have posted that waiting around and dragging their feet hurt in the long run. I know it is uncomfortable, and feels icky. But you owe it to the family to do it right.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
