What Should I be doing (5)

[cbtdad]

Cnut! I'm completely ok with you bringing ACC words of wisdom here
He is very knowledgable and has a lot of insight. He helped me a lot during my first time around here.
It's definitely good you caught the A early. My W was involved for 8 months
The EA lasted a couple months before the PA took place. Then she hit me with the divorce a 2 weeks after that. She filed first then told me. Where I lived at the time you had to be physically separated for 12 months before you could divorce.
Had that not been the case we would have divorced.
The reason being is that I had checked out of my marriage for a couple years
That's why I took some ownership in leaving my W vulnerable to an affair that time around
This time around I want to be just like Acc talks about
Only a fool would cheat or leave
I've decided when I start thinking a lot snooping now what good would it do
What does it change? Like you said "an app"
With so much technology now if my W wants to have an A and hide it she could very easily. So why snoop?
It doesn't make me feel better. So I'm just controlling what I can
Cnut, your W wants you! She wants it to work by the actions she is doing
Remember that!