What Should I be doing (4)

[Coconut]

Ginger, my reactions to her interactions at the fire station are my issues not hers. I want her to quit the fire department, no actually I want her to have an invisible male force field, but controlling her isn't gonna make us work. I NEED to trust her, I NEED to respect my contribution to our MR.

My W will always have opportunity to meet OM, just yesterday she was approached while out picking up a card for graduation party, my wife is absolutely beautiful, I can not control others attraction to her. I have to trust her response to those OM will be that she's happily married. If I make her quit something she is truly passionate about, I'm gonna have a hard time getting her to feel happily married.