What Should I be doing (5)

[Coconut]

There is no question I'm in a good spot, I don't question that, but by no means do I feel like I'm completely safe. I think the best thing I did, was I noticed the changes in my W behavior very quickly, and caught the A in just a few weeks, woulda been sooner but I couldn't access the app she was communicating in...

Plus the W and I really had an amazing first 6 years of marriage, I checked out the last two years, but my 180s (before I knew what they were) that I started day 1 of ILYBNILWY speech, which was before the A started, plays a lot into it. She has said several times that I now remind her of the man she fell in love with.

I am praying for you both, it is a tough road to go down, even still I still get tore up inside, but we will all come out better in the end. If nothing else, this process teaches us to be true to ourselves and appreciate what we have in our lives.