You know, I'm starting to feel this way. I would like my wife to return and our family to be whole, but not the pod person that has currently taken over my wife. She's more worried that I might get "someone involved in 'our' business" than her walking away from her family and destroying our marriage.

It's like you just want to shake them out of it and give them their common sense back. My wife acts like she's happy with the situation and content with her choice. I know her too well. She pretends to be tough, but is a big softy. She needs me too much in her life to just go cold turkey. It's getting easier to detach now, but I worry that when she finally snaps out of it I will have gotten too disgusted to want to do the hard work to repair things together.

Sorry, I went off on a tangent really. Your first sentence is exactly what happened to me today.

Good luck with MC. Hopefully your W comes outta the fog!

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.