A good friend of mine is encouraging me to approach W about an upcoming Retrouvaille weekend in our area. I've been wanting to see if my W would be open to this but fear she'd push it off.

Thoughts on asking her? Would this be seen as desperate from a DB perspective?

My thoughts were to just let her know it's in August and see if she would be open to attending to see if our M is salvageable. I wouldn't pressure her, would leave it up to her to decide.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17