Hi, MC is neither pro or against M. W is very resistant to makign "positive" changes, having previously said she is "done", it is "over" and she "does not want to try".

W is not in a PA afaiw, also not in an EA I think although she previously was. Not sure I really care if she is or isn't in one (trying to detach), at the moment she is not the person I know.

Believe me I do still love her and want her back, but I don't want the current version of her back; the one that doesn't respect me, blames me and is angry.

Our chat last month after a long walk revealed the most to me; she seems content with the current situation and does not see any problem with it continuing into the future. This seems like cake eating to me and I'm taking all the steps I can to prevent this and be assertive.

She has also recently written off her car, things will get interesting soon I feel!

M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted