The Unpleasantness

[rich4j]

Not sure what the "things get worse" means but I hope you can patch things up

I can tell you from a pure legal standpoint I was asked to maybe "move out" when I first was told the words about her not thinking she loved me anymore and wanted a separation. I thought about it but a few friends said DONT LEAVE the house from a legal standpoint

Now it was a hard decision and maybe a huge mistake to stay but I did. I don't think leaving would have helped our sitch now so i have no regrets but it did help from a legal standpoint.

Stinks to even think about it this way but my situation was a bit different than yours. I hope you can get things back on track with halting the smoking and maybe she can then trust you again