Slowly and Suzyblue, thanks for checking in on me.

The roller coaster ride continues, XH has been very attentive since Saturday. We have had a lot of fun chats which is great. He is going through a tough time right now with the sitch and the house, he told me that he told XOw to just stay gone, he would figure out how to pay the difference between what he contributes and what he contributes. I guess this is good but it sure does put a hell of a strain on him emotionally and financially. He has been so stressed out for the past few months about money and that house, I am not sure if it was such a great idea for him to tell her he did not want her to move back into the house and be his "room mate" for financial reasons, that he would just take care of the diff. URGH, it upsets me because I see how this sitch is effecting him.

More bad news to add to the sitch... Xh was involved in a wreck this morning, granted it was not his fault but he did total out his vehicle. His was the only vehicle involved, he is okay (Thank God!), this just adds one more thing to his list of bad things that have happened.
He is worried his insurance will not pay off his vehicle because he owes more than what is it worth, I have no idea how this works, not ever being in a sitch (knock on wood).
Does the insurance company pay off the vehicle infull? What happens to the extra amount of your car loan that the insurance does not cover if totaled? Do they tack it on to the price of the new vehicle you buy? If anyone knows anything please let me know.

Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.