Shooey, I just re-read a lot of your story as your chimed in on the "joining me in LRT" earlier. I think you were definitely bouncing back and forth a little bit, but you have the right ideas...
No more offering money to the W though (ha). If she wants out of the M, that's fine, but you should only really be concerned with the immediate needs, safety, and care of you and your children. She'll need to learn how to take care of herself.
Take it with a grain of salt, but I wouldn't give her, or offer, anything to her. BUT I DONT HAVE A CUSTODY BATTLE in my situation. So I'm not really sure how that works out. If you make her rage now, what's the result of how she'll go after you in the D?
I wouldn't really bring up anything with her life at all anymore. If she mentions no money to the kids, ignore it. Just let your kids know that "don't worry, I'll always have plenty of food over here for you all", HAHA.
Seriously, as long as your kinds are starving, or malnourished, let her figure out her own problems. Get on with your GAL, LRT, and take care of you man. But definitely, go see that Lawyer asap.
