Feeling lost 2

[srt]

Hi doodler, thanks for taking the time to repl, yes, I feel incredibly frustrated, and feel like I should be doing something, however I understand in reality there is very little I can do to "control" the situation i.e. her actions are decided by her not me.

It's the effect on my kids I'm most scared of, that and her rewriting marital history, as well as this unrealistic "dream" she has about her future life. It's like she is undermining everything we had which was good, and our marriage did have many good times, unfortunately she cannot see past the recent difficult times.

I suppose I'm looking for an MLC diagnosis, but I'm aware there are many other signs there which might not back this up.

If anyone can help me with my questions I'd really appreciate it.