Working on me and letting it play out

[cbtdad]

LOL
I will definitely be thinking of some consequences. I think for now running a mile will be my punishment. I do not like burpees, but I hate running. I would much rather lift than anything else.
I do know that the biggest consequence will be me needing space if I don't learn how to handle the triggers better.
I agree with you that there can be stability if I move out. We both agree that staying in the marriage just for him is not good. It's not want either of us want. However, if I we can do it under the same roof then that is best for him now. I guess that's what I keep looking at. Aside from the couple backsteps we are getting a long better than we have in 6 or 7 months. She text me, we communicate, we laugh, we have fun, its actually quite good except for the romantic stuff.
In the end I keep just taking it a little at a time. If it gets to a point were there is resentment, anger, fighting, etc
Then I'm moving out plain and simple