Ginger, If the guy hasn't responded to your text, then make some fun plans for yourself. Don't sit there waiting on him to respond and if he responds at the 11th hour, say "sorry, I didn't hear from you and I've already made other plans". Don't change your plans for him. Don't be so overly accommodating to people because they will tend to take advantage of you and yes, you will begin to feel used and resentful. Just remember...your time is just as valuable as the next person's.
Stay positive...Mr. Right will come along when you aren't looking. Don't settle for less...aim high because you are worthy of a higher quality relationship and Ginger, you don't need to pretzel yourself for anyone. You're the prize and when guys start to see that you value yourself and your time, they'll begin to respect you and your time and that's when Mr. Right will come along.
Again, don't settle for less and do not sell yourself short. You have a lot to offer!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
