suzyblue, my Xh and I have been Divorced for just over two years. You asked...
Quote: When you ex about where he is going, or who with--does he tell you???
The funny thing is that I don't ask him where he is going or who he is with. I try to give him space and so far is seems to work. 99% of the time he tells me before he goes out and calls me atleast once while he is out on the town. I simply wish him a good night then go on with my evening. He confuses me at times because I'm not sure if he tells me his where abouts to be courtious or if it is simply an excuse to check up on me. I don't know, I gave up that guessing game a while back. I just try to think positive about the situation.
As far as your question about them going out with us as if we were a couple then acting like completely different people when we are not around or when they are with other people is beyond my knowledge. The only thing I can imagine is that our S's or in your and my case XH's are just confused little boys. Not knowing which toy they want to play with at the present time. If anyone else has other theorys please let me know.
Halo
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It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
