RSG, I know its tough man. You are doing good. Just keep putting one step in front of the other. Remember when your W is reaching out to you emotionally she is cake eating. Don't be rude, but keep it to one or two word responses. Back my first time around there was a poster named URworthy I'm not sure she is around anymore, but she use to have very wise words. Here is something I saved that you may find usesful: "Trying to understand the "crazy' is never gonna pay off for you. Try to accept the new reality of what is happening around you, and not let your mind wander to the land of "what ifs" and "whys" There are a lot of scary creatures that live there..... What she is doing, doesn't make you better, or her worse, it is what it is... It doesn't mean it always has to be this way..."
I hope that helps Hang in there!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
