Today. WW comes home to pick up my son for camp. I feel like she's going to say something, so I just say go ahead. "I'm done. I don't want to try."

Based on our conversation throughout the day, she still seems to be in the fog. After telling me she's done, she's been stressed at work all day and texting me her troubles. I end up telling her she's a good teacher, and she responds with "but a terrible wife." We talk a little more, and the closest thing to a real answer as to why is the ILYBNILWY nonsense.

She's admitted she needs me because she cannot look after our son alone. I've actually gotten better at this than her. She obviously needs me emotionally based on how we've corresponded the last 2 weeks, since she left. I just don't get it. I'm obviously trying to reach an unreasonable person.


Sandi, anyone help me out here? I'm having a rough day!


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.